How to Share your Awesome
Here’s something I truly believe:
As human beings, it is our duty to share our gifts with the world.
Yet a lot of us don’t. Why is that?
- Sometimes we don’t recognize our inherent gifts and talents
- In an effort to be humble and to avoid rocking the boat, we deny our talents.
- We feel that others don’t want what we have to offer.
- We fear that what we have to offer isn’t valuable.
- We feel that we aren’t valuable.
- Know what your gifts are. What do you like to do? What do others tell you you’re good at? What did you enjoy as a child? Do whatever you need to do to find our what you’re good at.
- Develop those gifts. Practice, read books, take classes, do whatever it takes to get good at those gifts and feel confident sharing them.
- Trust your gifts. You have them for a reason. They’re meant to help you and others. Allow them to do that.
- Stop being shy about it. Cockiness is one thing, but being aware of your talents and refusing to feel sheepish is one of the most powerful ways to share. Take opportunities to share. Make opportunities. If someone asks you if you’re good at (insert amazing gift here) say “Yes!”.
- Find your purpose and how your gifts play into that. I feel silly sticking this in a little bullet-point, but your purpose is the mother ship of all your gifts. Your talents support your purpose. Do some work, find out what you want to do and what you’re meant to do, then figure out how your talents can accomplish that. Need help getting started? Try this exercise by Steve Pavlina. It’ll at least get you thinking.
- Know that you and your gifts are valuable. Nothing kills a sense of purpose like low-self esteem. Do some work, realize how valuable you are to the world just by being yourself. And being yourself doesn’t mean feeling like a loser and doing nothing, though we all do that sometimes. Being yourself means striving, evolving and living as your best self, which is what this blog is all about.
- Find others who want what you have to offer. When you’ve discovered your gifts, do a little marketing research. Where can you apply yourself? Can you help a worthy cause? Should you start a business? Think now. Research.